Friday, April 20, 2012

SUNDAY Night Book Club


Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life
Looking for a little more balance in your life?

Having trouble discerning when to commit, and when to draw the line?

(Are we even allowed to ask that question, or is it too selfish?)

Join Emily Cook to discuss
Boundaries by Dr. Cloud and Dr. Townsend

Sundays at 8:15pm at the Fellowship Hall

All are welcome!

Contact me to register by April 23

emilymariecook@gmail.com
447-8693
I would like to make books available by our first meeting on Sunday April 29
Books will be $11
(I will order them together to save on shipping. Please let me know if you prefer to buy/borrow a book for yourself instead!)

Boundaries
Having clear boundaries is essential to a healthy, balanced lifestyle. A boundary is a personal property line that marks those things for which we are responsible. In other words, boundaries define who we are and who we are not. Boundaries impact all areas of our lives: Physical boundaries help us determine who may touch us and under what circumstances -- Mental boundaries give us the freedom to have our own thoughts and opinions -- Emotional boundaries help us to deal with our own emotions and disengage from the harmful, manipulative emotions of others -- Spiritual boundaries help us to distinguish God's will from our own and give us renewed awe for our Creator -- Often, Christians focus so much on being loving and unselfish that they forget their own limits and limitations. When confronted with their lack of boundaries, they ask: 

- Can I set limits and still be a loving person? 
- What are legitimate boundaries? 
- What if someone is upset or hurt by my boundaries? 
- How do I answer someone who wants my time, love, energy, or money? 
- Aren't boundaries selfish? 
- Why do I feel guilty or afraid when I consider setting boundaries? 

Read the full description of the book here.



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